How I Found Motivation: Overcoming Uncertainty in Five Easy Steps

Today, what I want to do is share some motivation, and a lot of real talk. I've experienced major shifts in my life, facing days where I felt lost, scared, lacking purpose & contribution, and uncertain about the future. If you're going through it right now, I get it. You're not alone!

Years ago, I was on a lackluster job hunt, chasing a goal that didn't matter to me because of societal and parental expectations. One day, my husband Andre called from work, informing me that I was "in the red" financially. This wake-up call came as I was napping on the couch, feeling utterly unmotivated and purposeless.

Now, a big question I get is, “how are you so motivated?” I want to take you through five easy steps you can take away today that might enlighten you as to how I motivated myself and changed my own life.

1. You create motivation

I need to start with this, because I think so many of us have this assumption that people are born with it; that they just have it. The way I would explain this best is that the power plant doesn’t have energy, it generates the energy. YOU are the power plant. You generate the energy, just like you generate the motivation.

Now you might be thinking, “that’s cute, but how do you do that?” The other four tips play into that, but the very first thing is just to be aware that you’re the one that creates the motivation. It’s not just going to bop you over the head one day.

2. Establish a routine

If you’ve followed me for any amount of time, you know I’m a big fan of routine. Repeating daily activities that bring joy and purpose will drive you forward in your goals, and that’s how your life changes. Consistency is key!

3. Focus on needle-moving activities

Each day, identify 1-3 tasks that significantly impact your goals. In the Daily Grind Planner, there's a section for these "needle movers" smack in the middle of the page. These are derived from your to-do list, which comes from your top ten goals of the month. The needle movers are what will generate momentum, and momentum leads to motivation. This practice ensures you're always progressing on what matters the most to YOU.

4. Practice gratitude & excitement

Every day, write down three things you’re grateful or excited for. This habit helps shift your mindset and keeps you centered.

5. Time block your day

I don’t write out this big agenda of all these things I need to do, I just use time blocking to manage my schedule. Allocate specific times for your top three needle movers to make sure you stay focused and productive. Keep it simple for maximum effectiveness!

By incorporating these steps, you’ll find the motivation to get to work doing the things you truly care about in life. Remember, I’ve been in your shoes, and I’m so excited for you to start living the life of your dreams!